Comments on: The nightmare that almost was http://chrishernandezauthor.com/2012/10/15/the-nightmare-that-almost-was/ A fine WordPress.com site Sun, 12 May 2013 20:07:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Justice06RR http://chrishernandezauthor.com/2012/10/15/the-nightmare-that-almost-was/comment-page-1/#comment-918 Wed, 27 Feb 2013 05:24:27 +0000 http://chrishernandezauthor.wordpress.com/?p=109#comment-918 Wow, that really could’ve turned out into a nightmare. But thanks to your professionalism and how well you handled it (and partially to luck), its good to hear nothing came out of it. Its definitely one of those experiences that make you scratch your head and ask yourself “what if?”

Police related events we hear about in the media can be confusing and inaccurate. Hard to tell sometimes why some cops shot first and asked questions later, instead of the opposite. But those of us who are only speculating do not know the facts. Unfortunately if a situation does look bad because of what a cop(s) has done, it paints a bad picture for the rest of the officers.

Anyway, thanks again for sharing!

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By: chrishernandezauthor http://chrishernandezauthor.com/2012/10/15/the-nightmare-that-almost-was/comment-page-1/#comment-899 Wed, 27 Feb 2013 00:50:52 +0000 http://chrishernandezauthor.wordpress.com/?p=109#comment-899 With her mental state and age, I doubt she would have spent even a day in jail. That poor woman wasn’t perceiving reality, and it wasn’t her fault. Hell, if she had shot me even I wouldn’t want her in jail.

For a little more info, as far as I can tell she could hear fine, which is why she sat up and covered her ears. There was no TV on. You’re right that some situations just suck, and all we can hope for is to make them suck not quite as bad as they could. I did have some good luck that night. And you’re also right about public opinion, and the difficulty of getting the actual truth during an investigation. Everyone gives their own version of events, and often there’s a definite angle to be worked.

That was one of those experiences that will always give me the chills.

Thanks for commenting, Mike.

Chris

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By: Mike http://chrishernandezauthor.com/2012/10/15/the-nightmare-that-almost-was/comment-page-1/#comment-894 Tue, 26 Feb 2013 17:24:18 +0000 http://chrishernandezauthor.wordpress.com/?p=109#comment-894 On the other hand, if the woman had shot you she’d have spent the rest of her life in prison. Regardless of if she didn’t hear you when you shouted “police” (maybe she had bad hearing, or the TV up loud), or if the robbers in the neighborhood were known to yell “police,” too.

Far as I see it, some situations are just nasty and complex, and only end up well by good luck. And whatever gets reported about them will never resemble the truth. Everyone deserves a fair trial, but they’ll never get it in the court of public opinion. :(

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By: chrishernandezauthor http://chrishernandezauthor.com/2012/10/15/the-nightmare-that-almost-was/comment-page-1/#comment-853 Tue, 26 Feb 2013 00:06:32 +0000 http://chrishernandezauthor.wordpress.com/?p=109#comment-853 Yup. If I had been shot at and fired back, I’d STILL be getting crucified over it, almost 20 years later.

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By: Retired Mustang http://chrishernandezauthor.com/2012/10/15/the-nightmare-that-almost-was/comment-page-1/#comment-840 Mon, 25 Feb 2013 21:18:30 +0000 http://chrishernandezauthor.wordpress.com/?p=109#comment-840 It’s hard to learn to not second guess the other guys when you weren’t there for the shoot/don’t shoot decision, but it’s necessary. These days, I put a lot of effort into not making a judgement until I know more. Sadly, many of the people I talk with don’t do the same thing.

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By: chrishernandezauthor http://chrishernandezauthor.com/2012/10/15/the-nightmare-that-almost-was/comment-page-1/#comment-817 Mon, 25 Feb 2013 17:44:54 +0000 http://chrishernandezauthor.wordpress.com/?p=109#comment-817 Exactly. That’s why I haven’t jumped on the “those cops at Dorner’s cabin screwed up” bandwagon. I know that just because something looks bad, that doesn’t mean it is bad.

Thanks for reading and commenting, and for the quote. I’m sure I’ll have to use it someday.

Chris

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By: Aesop http://chrishernandezauthor.com/2012/10/15/the-nightmare-that-almost-was/comment-page-1/#comment-811 Mon, 25 Feb 2013 17:21:22 +0000 http://chrishernandezauthor.wordpress.com/?p=109#comment-811 A very wise police desk sergeant once explained to me in my youth the addage that “No matter how flat the pancake, there’s always two sides.”

It is a moral than never loses its truth.

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By: chrishernandezauthor http://chrishernandezauthor.com/2012/10/15/the-nightmare-that-almost-was/comment-page-1/#comment-110 Mon, 15 Oct 2012 19:35:12 +0000 http://chrishernandezauthor.wordpress.com/?p=109#comment-110 Sheri, I’m not sure how I missed this earlier, but I just saw that you’re a former B&N book buyer and a professional book reviewer. If you have any advice for how I can get more reviews or wider distribution for my book, please let me know. Thank you again for following my blog and for the feedback.

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By: chrishernandezauthor http://chrishernandezauthor.com/2012/10/15/the-nightmare-that-almost-was/comment-page-1/#comment-109 Mon, 15 Oct 2012 19:29:05 +0000 http://chrishernandezauthor.wordpress.com/?p=109#comment-109 Sheri,

Thank you for your comments. This incident has stuck with me for many years, and I reflect on it whenever I hear a story about a police officer (or soldier) that sounds terrible but maybe doesn’t explain all the factors involved.

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By: sheridegrom - From the literary and legislative trenches. http://chrishernandezauthor.com/2012/10/15/the-nightmare-that-almost-was/comment-page-1/#comment-108 Mon, 15 Oct 2012 16:29:59 +0000 http://chrishernandezauthor.wordpress.com/?p=109#comment-108 Chris – Again – a post that reads as if I were there in the old woman’s house wondering what the heck was going on. It gives me chills to think about the information the son with-held from you and how tragically this could have turned out for all concerned. You are right on in weighing in on all fronts before making your conclusions on what’s printed in the media. Thanks for another wonderful and informative post.

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